You shouldnt judge all Scorpios because of one experience. Give me $200 per paycheck for me and for our food when we go on dates outside. Thats why they came up with the term man cave. We men need it. What a dirtbag.. What a dilemma you have there. I am a Virgo female & have found the Scorpio male to be easily misunderstood. When he is ready to let something go.. then he lets it go completely. Virgos love to suck up Praise but I barely see one shoot praise back at the one they received it from. I said dont blame it on me. Virgo 's ruling planet is Mars, the planet of wisdom and communication. I didnt intend for that to happen, in fact that was the last thing I wanted, but it happened. I wanted to take it slow cuz Id just gotten over my Gemini ex-fianc and still had some stuff I needed to work out for myself, and the speed at which he was moving made me feel cornered. be true to your hearts. done get me wrong, i love my scorp, but i often wonder if i truly like him! Scorpios and Virgos can be secretive..its in our nature but we must Open up to one another if we want something desirable. These failed relationships on here have been the Scorpios fault only. @ IntenseScorpio ~ Wow, thank you so much for telling the beauty of a Virgo ~ Scorpio relationship! The Scorpio woman should limit her passionate and not overwhelm him while trying new things as per Virgo man and Scorpio woman love compatibility. He may truly love you that time and cant resist your Virgo charm, leaving you is the right but painful choice for him. I love my Virgo girl. So, fast-forward back to meeting this Virgo woman, it should come to no surprise then that in first meeting her I initially thought nothing of her. The dark sides of us are easily kept at bay in the following ways But no, you simply vouch for your mishap & move past it, expecting others to forgive you instantly! huh? The Virgo woman may be feeling unheard or blamed for mistakes of another's doing. She stands by him and provides him with the emotional support he requires. The Scorpio man is a wholly different creature once he surrenders to trust. RGht now we are kinda giving each others space. It was awful news for more then the fact it may have caused me to lose this girl after all. What they like this, male and physical attraction and cons of capricorn man and cancer, male is deadly kind of the scorpio woman come together. Shes sweet, unpredictable, hot-tempered, intellectual,gorgeous organized, talkative, shy, etc. But was a bit pursuasive, i didnt mind that. Im a handfull. RUN! AI mean I understood his situation with his uncle L. L. But he got a car to use to visit me instead. Virgo woman can remain in her opinion as perfectthen Come on this site and slate a scorpio. The thing is, this girl is 75% into women. Many of you are spot on about scorps! How to get rid of a Scorpio give him a list of every thing that needs to change with him! He's a flexible earth sign while you're a stable water sign, but once the two of you lock in on a common goal, nothing can. I am a scorpio and feel head over heels for my Virgo female and all she ever done was run from me scorpio. He goes to any length to keep the ones he loves safe and sound. Right from the start I just wanted to be friends to take it slow. As a Scorpio woman with your eye on a Virgo guy, that's good news for you! Scorps are insanely complicated and we get even, not mad, however, sometimes we get mad and then get even. ; As an earth sign, a Virgo is intellectual, efficient, practical, and good at getting jobs done. Save. Dont let us find out that youre being untrue to us because we are vengeful souls. She sees the good in me and brings out the positive. Being the sign of perfection, Virgos have a tendency to break up with partners in a very noble way without . Life and love Is about growing / learning and in the bigger picture evolving as individuals, as a planet and a universe. The passion as a Scorpio man should match well with a Virgo woman's need to feel loved and needed. I never caught him cheating but i accused him and he never denied it. Where the Virgo sees the imperfection as the end of the matter te Scorpio will look into the reasons why and work with it or walk away drawing a lesson from the experience. Yea it was in an argument but still all I scorpio have been trying to do is love her Virgo and have her stop running. I am staying single now. Maybe your Scorpio wasnt yet fully evolved, or had mitigating influences (mine is probably a bit older than most of yours and lived, loved, and learned a bit before coming into my life.) He loves truely and makes sure that Im happy always. Scorpio is a water sign and Virgo is an earth sign. But if you are really genuine, grounded and humble person with a Good Heart above all..You are most likely to win over her..n let me tell you 1 more thing thatif you do get her..then automatically you would start feeling the most lucky guy on earth!! i am so disgusted & hurt, i have been here for 2 years, made my mistakes & begged forgiveness, which even tilthis day im not sure if i received! Gone just like that, after 2yrs, without a goodbye. But, if he is not, Ive learned something about love and what it is that I want in my life. I felt like my world has gone upside down but still I held myself and tried to go away but every time she brings me back sometimes she calls, sometimes she just gets so much worried about me she knows how I am. She claims that when we argue.. it seems as if we just dnt understand eachother. Virgos are inherently loyal, pragmatic, and detail-oriented. He can date you and the Taurus foreverand never cut either of you off. i dont care if he leaves, ive been praying for an out if thats what God wants to happen, let it happen, i cant understand ths man and im tired of trying to be perfect! So, I lost a mother, and a best friend. Now, at the time, I was 26 (now 28 doing on 29), and my group of friends consisted and still do of 3 mid-twenty males (yes, a group of friends for me is three people). When he loves a woman he completely gives his entire heart to her. You have to be quick and always look out for yourself, because they will take advantage of you if you let them. The Scorpio man and Virgo woman compatibility is filled with ethics, morals and virtues which is a sure-fire for a beautiful connection to take place. I hope this helped someone out there. But after all this time he kept silent said nothing to even stop me from leaving him. There are times I want to share my day or my issues with my Scorpio man but he can be very self-centered at times in which he would pretend he hears me but he honestly doesnt. But I cant hide that im scared that one day she will leave me for another man. Ive had many partners throughout my life but I have never been so hung up on a person or had the feelings come as quickly as they have with my amazing Virgo woman. Virgo woman with the same Scorpio result. Virgos have a way of pushing people away because we want to see who really cares about us. Ive been a guarded individual throughout the majority of my life thus far, because in the majority of my relationships Ive been burned. Crazy chemistry.almost too intense.to the point of obsession. Compliment him. Im a realist, I Hope my candor doesnt hurt you but it is what it is. Im a virgo girl and Ive been with my scorpio guy for about 4 months. The best thing for us to do is not argue because its never really anything huge to be arguing about. they are also loyal to friends and very protective of the people they love!. I just really hate when we argue. I happened to meet someone else in an effort to forget about him. she gave you space, space you obviously needed! they're both loyal; Virgo won't make Scorpio jealo. Pob 485, scorpio man is a virgo woman scorpio, this is a middle-aged woman and aquarius. Henry, I just got out of a relationship with a Virgo women who is supposed to be a lesbian. @jamie- I am totally agree wid u and every single word is correct.I felt that u r narrating ma story. I may not be the smartest person in the world and yes i know that i am young and that i still have a long life ahead of me but it just got to me that all you guys and judge someone so cruelly on the day that they were born or just because you got a bad one .. No one said that you had to put yourself through those things with the scorpio male.. that was your own fault for sticking around, but you dont half to sit there and assume that all scorpio males are bad people NOT ALL OF THEM ARE.. My man is the best man in the entire world to me and i refuse to let anyone get in our way and try and make me feel different. Was I scared because maybe deep down Id known that I could really love and be loved by this man? The mental abuse has stayed even to this day not ( just not as bad & easily managable) The physical abuse started after 2nd child @ 4 mnths of age..Physical Abuse started 2 yrs & 4 mnths & 4 days after weddingchoking, punching, slapping,pulling my long hair & throwing me on the concreteSCORPIOS ARE DANGEROUS he has ALWAYS threstend to kill me still I have people who know if I come up missing it is MY HUSBAND tell cops !!! The new feelings we were both throwing back at each other had us bother floating with excitement there was no denying it was something different for both of us. and we can really stir up a grand meal in the kitchen. And have you and another girlfiend or a wife! In the end, it is pretty easy, even if we have our moods and our moments. The time I took away to grieve (though I believe I will forever be grieving) resulted in a drift between me and the Virgo woman, because I didnt really talk to her (or anyone for that matter) while I grieved. As a Scorpio man I can totally agree with this. How dare he lead you on this way telling you hes been thinkin of you YET hes engaged? What a scumbag. But, I encourage you to look deeper at the relationship and yourself. The Virgo man and Scorpio woman are considered to be soulmates by the zodiac, but there are many things that a Scorpio woman has to offer the Virgo man. He used to call all the time, shared everything with me, was romantic,possesive, jealous. He waited for me to come back around, almost as if he knew, even though he tells me he never thought hed see the day that id be back in his life. She rivals Scorpio's strong will, and has no problem asserting her dominance when needed. As a Scorpio male this is something known almost by second nature. Its not that we dont understand eachother. Also, we sometimes like the aggression..try something new with us in the bed. I had a rotten one, and most of my girlfriends have too! It has been 4 months now and he hasnt replyed to my letter asking him is it over? This meant that when I fell in love, I fell in love with my entire being; because I believe she (the love interest) deserved that respect. My Scorpio is very loving, caring, smart, strong, loyal, dependable and a true leader! But she's no pushover. That sounds strange, I suppose, and Im not lost in romantic blather, but it is what I feel. everyone thinks we are the perfect couple, but they dont see/hear what i do. Also that I dont have time for men that dont know what they want. You just described perfectly my relationship with the Scorpio man in my life. Ive never this much patience for any other women ive been with in my life to this point. I'm a Scorpio and I've dealt with 2 Virgo's. They lie a lot and cheat like it's a full time job. Im hopelessly in love with a scorpion man. Yes I am. Everything Ive read about scorpios is what I though I knew about him but he has turned out to be a snake. if a woman tries to get him to listen when hes doing this it wont work until he has rebuilt. I know that this sounds strange in some ways, reading some of the posts above, but for me it is true. He would do efforts to make thing work out and it will be just fine. It is lik my relationship has veen talked here. I find what a lot of people have said about us male Scorps troubling. If you realized it sooner, please take an action to show ur love towards virgo girl and always be thr when virgo girl needed you. He is an extremist with calm and steady surface and smoldering passion within him. #13. As the goodie-two-shoes and the baddie of the zodiac, respectively, you may not . Our first date was good, in his defense, and scorpios are just easy to open up to. Definitely agree, our connection was there before we even said a word to each other. I am a Scorpio & I have a fling for a Virgo girl. The Virgo and Pisces compatibility is 50/50; it can be either heaven or hell. He is very loyal and faithful to the woman he loves. Being that Ive been with my Scorpio for so long, Im learning to let him know on the spot when I feel hes not being attentive. They cant just get the hint when Im not interested, even when I say so or make it very obvious through my actions. Blackenedbones 7 mo. 12 Virgo man is under the influence of Mercury, while Scorpio woman is under the influence of Mars and Pluto. WE ARE like a superior species always in control of others, and the current situation. He said the he loves me and i was falling for him hard. Even an unlikely outing or setting could spark a romantic mood. even the guy above FAILED MISERABLY to see that his Virgo female moving on was HIS fault, after his MOM died (sorry for that, but dont punish others!) I pray your Scorpio is not like that and I wish you all the best. Then one day he propsed me and i accepted. The other part is sensuous, erotic, seeking every level of passion for absolute . But they always know how they feel about each other and it is just hard for them to open up until they feel safe in each others arms. They both encourage each other and magnify each others virtues. I am a virgo women and am currently in a relationship with a scorpio man. Wow.. He DID notice that the inflection in your voice being condescending, no matter how subtle you might think it was.